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Resolving Conflicts: A Triple Win Method for Teachers, Students, and Parents
In the classroom, Teacher Marianne Franke-Gricksch effectively applies systemic constellation methods, using representatives to reenact...
May 83 min read


Unable to pay respects to your ancestors during Qingming Festival? Here’s how you can honor them differently!
The Qingming Festival, one of the 24 solar terms, is also one of the four major traditional Chinese festivals, along with Chinese New...
May 84 min read


Filial Piety: Not to Be Demanded
When Relationships Follow Their Natural Order, Everything Falls into Place For a child, parents are the closest figures who nurture and...
May 83 min read


The Orders of the Soul
Within a family, there exists a collective soul and conscience governed by three fundamental orders: Equal Right to Belong: The first...
May 82 min read


Coercion and Liberation
「脅迫」來自於外,人深受脅迫之時,被逼著以自己極為厭惡的方式的想事情,做事情。人是不可能和脅迫之下的想法與行動和諧一致的。所以說,脅迫之下的思考不是真思考,因為怕被拒絕或被懲罰,只好遵守另一套不屬於我的思考模式,暗自裡想的卻是另外一套,只是沒有表現出來...
May 82 min read


A New Beginning
After every crisis, a fresh start is necessary. This means that once hardships have passed, one should not dwell on or repeatedly recall...
May 81 min read


Maintaining Systemic Awareness in Daily Life
Beyond Being Present: The Power of Observation Participants often ask interesting questions that refine our understanding of systemic...
May 82 min read


Body Awareness and Self-Healing – The Power of Imagination
In the classroom, Teacher Marianne guides the children to develop an awareness of their own bodies... I ask them to focus on their toes,...
May 82 min read


The Present Is Everything
The present is all that exists. The past no longer is. Once an event is tied to the past, it ceases to exist in the present, yet we often...
May 81 min read


Work, Money, and Wealth
Do you consider yourself wealthy? Successful? How do you define wealth and success? Most people believe that hard work equals earning...
May 82 min read


Honor: A Gift of Life
What we focus on here is the giving of life by parents and the acceptance of life by children. This exchange of giving and receiving is...
May 81 min read


Love is a Gift
Philosopher and psychotherapist Wolfgang Giegerich gives a moving description of love: "Through love, we experience the dynamics of...
May 72 min read


Merging with Reality
Hellinger: Sometimes, we try to fight against death, but has anyone ever succeeded in doing so? Fighting against death or destiny? This...
May 71 min read


My Illness: Thank You for This Precious Gift
On January 18, I returned to Xi’an, China, and fell ill as soon as I relaxed after finishing my courses and work, completely overwhelmed...
May 74 min read


Gerhart’s Story
In her book “When We Are Together”, Teacher Marianne shares the story of Gerhart. My interaction with Gerhart began when I was leading a...
May 73 min read


An Inner Sense of a Wounded Child
There is an emptiness inside, a void that never seems to fill. This person can't stay alone in peace because the feeling of emptiness...
May 71 min read


A Prayer for Children Lost to Abortion
The arrival of a child in our lives is a rare and precious connection. The deaths of these children should not be in vain. We must learn...
May 53 min read


What Can We Do When a Client Becomes Self-Centered During a Session?
Participant: What can we do if a client becomes self-centered during a session? Hellinger: Let me demonstrate. Place a chair over there,...
May 52 min read


Mindfulness and Meditation: Returning Home (The Journey Back to Mother)
How can we find our way back to our mother, to that close connection we once shared? What steps can we take to reconnect with others and...
May 52 min read


Mindfulness and Meditation: Returning Home (The Journey Back to Mother)
How can we find our way back to our mother, to that close connection we once shared? What steps can we take to reconnect with others and...
May 52 min read
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