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[Parents and Children] The Earliest Form of Help
The first form of help takes place between parents and children, with the earliest instance occurring between a mother and her child. In...
Oct 26, 20241 min read
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I Choose to Live for Myself
Where does my resentment come from? Why do I always have a grudge against the people closest to me, and why do I get married and then...
Oct 26, 20241 min read
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“Happiness” is an Achievement of the Soul
It’s been almost three years since I began exploring systemic constellations, but my most profound realization came just this October....
Oct 26, 20242 min read
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Reclaiming His Love for His Father after 30 Years
When asked, “What is your usual relationship with your father like?” he paused briefly, then answered slowly: “Let me share my story.” ...
Oct 26, 20243 min read
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Recurring Family Dynamics
Participants have raised many interesting questions that help us clarify our thoughts about systemic constellations. One participant...
Oct 15, 20241 min read
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Hellinger on Addiction
When a person misses someone, the phenomenon of addiction may arise. Addiction acts as a substitute for the person being missed. How can...
Oct 15, 20242 min read
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The Impact of Ex-Spouses and Former Partners
A crucial insight from systemic constellation has enhanced our understanding of modern psychology: Hellinger identified the influence of...
Oct 15, 20242 min read
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The Joy and Pain of Love
Every new relationship activates our subconscious, awakening the deep-seated joy we felt when we were connected to our mother in the...
Oct 15, 20242 min read
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Love and Respect
Participant: I have a question about another form of love that often involves hurt. The love between parents and children can sometimes...
Oct 15, 20241 min read
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Hellinger on the "Compensatory Mindset"
A man called to inquire about his situation: He mentioned that he has a disabled sister at home. He wants to love and care for her, but...
Sep 30, 20241 min read
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Inner Constellation: Listening to the Messages of the Body
The symptoms or illnesses of the body are, in fact, messages that reveal where we may have neglected our care. They prompt us to reflect...
Sep 30, 20242 min read
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A Complete Transformation of My Life
Attending Teacher Chou Ting Wen's class has profoundly impacted my life. It has completely changed how I live. For ten years, my husband...
Sep 30, 20242 min read
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Cultivating Joy: The Power of Helping Others
Assistance in resonating with the heart Many people who support and help others often feel they need to put things back on track,...
Sep 30, 20241 min read
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A Review of Family Relationships
The checklist below can help us apply the principles of relationships in daily life, taking an important step toward harmonious...
Sep 23, 20245 min read
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Act Now! A Woman's Struggle Against Surgery
Hellinger (to Leah): What is your issue? Leah: I have aortic stenosis, but I don't want to have surgery. I feel a strong resistance to...
Sep 11, 20243 min read
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Moving Through Grief Toward Transformation and Rebirth
Systemic constellation guides us to face family trauma, move through grief, and move toward transformation and rebirth. When a family is...
Sep 11, 20242 min read
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The Healing Love
In his book “To the Heart of the Matter”, Bert Hellinger discusses an example of breast cancer. Hellinger: When did the breast cancer...
Sep 11, 20241 min read
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Connecting with the Masculine Strength in the Family
It's been almost a month since the first Family Constellation Intermediate Course ended, and during this time, I've noticed some...
Sep 11, 20242 min read
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What Have You Done for Yourself Today?
Teacher Henry invited a participant sitting in the back to join him at the front. The participant was a woman in her fifties. Teacher...
Sep 11, 20242 min read
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Wife vs. Husband
Is your family like this too? The wife loves to shop; the husband is frugal. The wife says she loves her husband, but the husband seems...
Aug 20, 20242 min read
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