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I Choose to Live for Myself
Where does my resentment come from? Why do I always have a grudge against the people closest to me, and why do I get married and then...
Oct 26, 2024


Reclaiming His Love for His Father after 30 Years
When asked, “What is your usual relationship with your father like?” he paused briefly, then answered slowly: “Let me share my story.” ...
Oct 26, 2024


Act Now! A Woman's Struggle Against Surgery
Hellinger (to Leah): What is your issue? Leah: I have aortic stenosis, but I don't want to have surgery. I feel a strong resistance to...
Sep 11, 2024


The Healing Love
In his book “To the Heart of the Matter”, Bert Hellinger discusses an example of breast cancer. Hellinger: When did the breast cancer...
Sep 11, 2024


What Have You Done for Yourself Today?
Teacher Henry invited a participant sitting in the back to join him at the front. The participant was a woman in her fifties. Teacher...
Sep 11, 2024


Wife vs. Husband
Is your family like this too? The wife loves to shop; the husband is frugal. The wife says she loves her husband, but the husband seems...
Aug 20, 2024


Dealing with Disruptive Children Effectively
Some children are constantly anxious at school and often cause trouble. One such student, Rainer, was causing significant disruptions in...
Aug 20, 2024


Love and Hate Intertwined
When children witness their parents quarrel and split up, they feel immense sadness. Many children secretly vow, "I will never abandon my...
Apr 26, 2024
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