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Wilfried Nelles on "Trauma"
Trauma itself is not the issue; how trauma occurs is not so important. What truly matters is how we face it and how we deal with it....
Aug 15, 2024


Respecting Former Partners
Interactions between partners need to be balanced, even during a breakup. If not, the unresolved issues can carry over to future...
Aug 15, 2024


Fated Guilt?
When we are favored due to the sacrifices of others, we may experience guilt. In such a fated situation, we can't prevent or change these...
Aug 15, 2024


From Good to Better: Guiding a Couple to a Fresh Start
A couple, Conrad and Cecilia, sought Hellinger’s help. Hellinger (to Conrad and Cecilia): What seems to be the problem? Conrad: Well,...
Aug 15, 2024


Everything is About Energy
Trauma symptoms don't arise from the "trigger" event itself but from the residual energy trapped and unprocessed within the frozen...
Aug 15, 2024


Purity: Being Fully Present in the Moment
"Purity" means being clear and unbiased, like a pristine sound. A thought can also be pure if it focuses solely on one thing, purely...
Aug 15, 2024
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